11 Habits of Successful Women

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Hi everyone and welcome back to my channel my name is Erin and this channel is all about entrepreneurship and living
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your best life and in today's video what I wanted to do was share 11 habits of successful women I read a lot i watch a
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lot of youtube I listen to a lot of podcasts and I just really have studied a lot of the mentors that I really look
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up to and I really like to put together little lists and I put together a list of all the kind of habits that I noticed
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that a lot of the successful women I looked up to did and I thought why not share this on a youtube video so that's
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what I'm here today today if you did enjoy the video I would very much appreciate it if you gave it a big
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the first habit that I really noticed that successful women do is that they do everything with intention you know I'm
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speaking about this before on my channel but I just think that a lot of people who aren't necessarily succeeding
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they're kind of just hoping for the best you know they're just doing what everybody else is doing or what they
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think they need to be doing and hoping that somehow it's going to be successful right it's just like if you were into
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golf I don't know if you're into golf I'm definitely not but it's just like if you're into golf and you were sitting
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there blindfolded hitting as many balls as you possibly could hard thing that one was going to go in the hole it's
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less likely to happen and if you actually lined up the shot you were super intentional you even visualize the
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hole the shot going in like Tiger Woods does and then you took it and that's a lot to do with being successful in this
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particular habit you know do everything with intention why are you eating the food you eat why are you building the
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business you're building why are you going to that event why are you doing this live
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why are you anything I don't know I can't think of another example anything literally anything like why are you
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doing that do everything with intention to make it really rich for your life and really help you to move forward towards
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your goals and the next thing and this is something that I recently heard Murray folio talking about with in her
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interview with Tom value on impact theory and she was talking about balancing your masculine and feminine
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energy I didn't really know a lot about this so I'm only gonna explain it to the degree in which I know it but it's
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definitely a concept I would suggest looking more into ultimately our masculine and feminine energy it's not
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so much about male and female it's more so just about it's the embodiment versus the thinking mind and what you should do
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is really thinking about rather than just always being in this linear movement rather than always being in
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this thinking thinking thinking mind try to get into your body more you can do this through embodiment exercises
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dancing yoga meditation but ultimately you really want to be I guess grounding yourself and feeling into your body in
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your experience and presenting things to the world from the heart you know creating and speaking and you know even
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if Instagram post doing all of that from the body and from the heart rather than from the intellectual mind I've noticed
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when I really have something that in my heart or my soul wants to share it actually gets such higher engagement
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over something that I've really thought about posting so definitely look into this concept a little bit more it's a
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really great habit for any woman who is trying to be successful and the next thing is to schedule time to switch off
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I really noticed the successful women they are not chained to their phones they're not constantly having fun mo
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about not showing up online they're so confident in their self that if they took a full day of social media they
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know that when they came back their presence would be welcomed I recently took Tara at two days of social media
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and it was honestly one of the best things ever I not only figured out more direction
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and got more clarity for my business but I came back just literally ready to potty like I just felt so refreshed and
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recharged and I think so many of us who are not believing in ourselves we think that if we even drop the ball for a
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second it's all going to disappear but successful women they that switching off and taking time to
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connect with their intuition is just as important as showing up for their community and my next thing and you guys
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Nora this is like my number one value I truly do believe that if you're going to be successful this is something you have
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to do it's like a non-negotiable is you have to build deep relationships you cannot achieve success alone if you can
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show me an example of someone who literally has become so successful and done it completely by themselves but yes
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it's a lot to do with what you do and the actions you take but if you can show me an example of someone who has had no
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mentors no friends no support and apparently no nothing I will be mind blown because I truly do believe
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specifically with entrepreneurship that it should not be done alone that you need to build deep relationships and if
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you're someone who's maybe a little introverted or you don't know anyone in your real life who is an entrepreneur or
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is like-minded put yourself in a situation to meet new people you know I've got an online community called the
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game-changer collective and I recently reached out and researched all of my members in there and the number one
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thing that I heard so many of them saying was that the reason that this community was so successful for them was
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because of the other members being able to confine in other people and even being able to just watch other people
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succeed but either way find a way to meet like-minded individuals and surround yourself with them as often as
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you possibly can the next thing that I noticed a lot of successful women do is they personalize their environment so
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this might be a little harder to do if you live at home with your parents but what I really noticed is that everything
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within their environment everything within their experience is a game therefore intention you know rather than
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just filling your life with junk or crap that you don't need I'm talking about your mental environment as well as your
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physical environment but just making sure that everyday what you're experiencing it brings you joy you know
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you could I guess adults the konmari method for this as she does for it tidying up but do it for your whole
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experience you know everything that you you go through every day every every living situation you're in every
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relationship that you're in every conversation that you have every you know just everything that you do make
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sure that it's set up to your liking as much as you possibly can you know I know sometimes we go to jobs that we
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hate but at least have something on your desk that brings you joy just really try to make sure that every single day you
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just feel good about where you are on this earth at this point in time so the next habit that I noticed so many
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successful women did was they moved their body I don't want to talk too much about this because it's definitely not
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my area of expertise but it's definitely a common trend and something I'm working on so much more myself so like with the
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balancing the masculine and feminine energy I really noticed that a lot of these successful women were taking time
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to just feel themselves feel their body like Nicki Minaj I'm feeling myself but honestly not necessarily in like a
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sexual way but just in a way that allows them to get deep rooted in their body and a lot of women do that through
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exercise so I would say even if you can incorporate like a walk or some yoga dancing you know gym Fitness aerobics if
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you're in the 80s whatever it is but just incorporate something that gets you out of your minds and into your body it
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gets you out of you know social media it gets you out of your head it just allows you to just release a lot of pent-up
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energy that's going on within you and just take some time to kind of like switch off and move and the next thing
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is have positive female mentors so I've seen a lot of women who are very very successful and they have some amazing
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mentors and quite often a lot of them are men specifically in the female space but what I also realized was when they
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were being interviewed like for example I saw an interview of someone who was mentored by Richard Branson but she also
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said that her mama was a very big influence in her life and well I think it's really great to have these amazing
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men who are doing awesome things in the world I also think it's really important that you've got women to look up to if
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that if you were trying to be successful so you've got positive female influences in your life because I know that we're
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fighting for equality but at the end of the day I really do think men and women still are different women are much
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better and we want to support one another so make sure there are some people in your community in your family
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or in your life that are positive female role models that you can look up to because I truly do believe that women we
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need to stick together and we need to help each other to achieve success and the next habit that I've seen so
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many successful women adopt is that they practice speaking up this is one of the biggest reasons that has led to
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inequality in the workplace and I'm not saying necessarily the gender pay gap but women not being able to be put into
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leadership roles I think a big reason for that is their own confidence and because they're not necessarily speaking
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up they're not saying I want this role I want this leadership role and I know this is a bigger mo more deeper into
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issue than a video about habits but I really think in any area of life you should practice asking for what you want
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if you don't ask you won't receive and I think a lot of women they feel sort of bad about asking for what they want but
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you will never move forward if you don't practice this habit so I know that a lot of these successful women they ask for
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what they want whether or not they sound like a diva but just go for what you want be unapologetic about your desires
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and speak up for them and then the next habit and I don't really I've never actually found an entrepreneur or a
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successful woman who does this but I assume they do it and I do it so I wanted to put it on the list right has
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an uplevel list you know I love the concept of self-love self acceptance and I think that we should all just
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appreciate the place that we are in life right now but I also think we can always strive to
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be better we can always strive to do more we can always strive to itself develop and I think a really good way to
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do this is to have an uplevel list so on my phone I simply just have this big list of things I want to learn things I
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want to buy things I want to experience you know if feelings I want to experience all these things that I know
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would be an uplevel for my life but also for my business and those around me I just keep this list it's like my bucket
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list but it's more internal than things that I'm specifically just going to do and I think this is a really good way to
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kind of stay on track always have a North Star for where you're moving forward like I said successful women
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have a vision they know where they're going and this list is a really good way to just constantly be moving forward in
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life the next thing is to get your beauty sleep and I know this is such like a
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kind of line that a lot of people use like what is your beauty sleep even Maine but what I really mean is to just
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rest you know again with this whole masculine and feminine energy thing I think we're all so caught up in this
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hustle mentality my master mind actually actually joke around because both the other girls Kimberly and Ruby they are
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really really hard workers and they always talk about how they need to learn how to chill from me because I love to
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chill I love to rest I love to sleep honestly George do I love the sleep old water I can sleep like so so so often
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and that's the thing it's like I just really think that women need to learn how to just rest chill and I'm not
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saying like necessarily like being stressed right up into the point you go to sleep at night and then wake up and
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do it all again like really just take time to do sweet FA like just rest just take some time to let your body just
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sink into the experience of life because recharging those batteries is only gonna help you be more powerful and more
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successful and then my final thing is and I excuse the French even though I've got a little French fringe going on at
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the moment stop feeling Qing guilty this is one of the most important habits and if I was
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going to even just give you one thing to walk away with from this video it would be this successful women have built
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their life to the point where they don't have to feel guilty and yet I see so many women particularly those who are
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trying to build a business trying to be the best mom or the best wife or the best sister they just feel so guilty for
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so many things women feel guilty for becoming successful because they feel like
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they're out shining other people we even feel guilty for going for positions in their career because they feel like
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somebody else is being disadvantaged I think women who don't want to make money online because they feel like if I
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make money somebody else is gonna miss out you need to stop feeling guilty there's enough good life for anyone and
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honestly the better you get the more successful you get the richer you get the more you're actually gonna be able
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to help other people so you need to step up and become unapologetic stop feeling guilty about everything that you
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want to do you know I I coached so many clients who are like oh I feel guilty you know working and
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building my business because I'm not cleaning my house or I'm not doing the traditional life things and you cannot
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feel like that like this cannot be a part of your experience you have to just show up you know this is 2,000 or
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freakin 19 everyone has an equal place on this planet and that's what we're fighting towards but ultimately at the
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end of the day it's up to you it's up to you just stop feeling guilty we feed into our own insecurities by the way
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that we feel in the emotions we are touch to it and so please take this video is my message to you that if
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you're gonna be successful if you're gonna make a lot of money and therefore be able to help a lot of people you need
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to stop feeling guilty you need to do you you need to be you need to show up and you need to speak up and you need to
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just do what you can to make it happen that's it for me I hope that you liked my little list again I don't really know
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who these things had come from it's something that I've been developing over time but if you do have any positive
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female successful women habits that you want to add to the list please do leave them down in the comments below and I
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thank you so much for watching I will see you in the next video [Music]

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