What Men Want: 5 Reasons He Will Commit | Relationship Advice From Carlos Cavallo

The Cupid EffectThink About It…

How much easier would your relationship be if you could make him infatuated and devoted to you?

How much nicer would it be if you were able to get him to really commit his heart to your relationship?

Instead of one foot in and one foot out…

– Always looking like he’s waiting for a “better” opportunity…
– Never seeing what you have to offer him…
– Never seeing that you’re the right woman for him…

Wouldn’t it be great if you could just get him to open his heart to you?

I’m talking about “speaking his language” of needs and secret desires that he holds inside – and hides from you.

I’m going to help you out by exposing what he wants. What all men really want at heart….

Let’s go through the five reasons a man WILL commit to you or your relationship…

Learn them – Know them.

What Men Want – Get him to commit his heart – #1: A solid foundation…

No, “solid foundation” isn’t a clever way of saying “round hips.”

(Although, you really can finally stop worrying about the size of yours. Men don’t care about them like most women think.)

He wants you to have REAL CHARACTER. You have to be a mature woman that’s all grown up.

(You’d be shocked to find out how many wannabe-women we end up dating when we’re looking for The Real Deal.)

Character is not really emphasized in women these days. In fact, I don’t know that it ever has. Probably because most guys make their “buying decision” based on appearances. On Looks.

But then they rush to do a “trade-in” if they find out you’ve got one of these traits:The Cupid Effect

– Bitchy/Mean – no, ladies, men do NOT like bitches…
– Gold digger – if you’re eyeing his wallet more than him, he smells it…
– Dishonest/Disloyal – Speaks for itself.
– Selfish/Entitled – If it’s all about you, he’s going to wonder if he’ll ever be a priority to you…
– Superficial – If you’ve got no depth, he WILL get bored…
– Manipulative – Men HATE being played…

I’m sure we could go on and on about these.

The point is that you have to be a good person if you want a man to invest in you over the rest of your lives together. He wants in you what you want in him.

Character is NOTHING about your appearance.

It’s everything to do with the Hard Stuff of being a good person.

Men want a woman that is investing just as much time and energy into her makeup and hair and clothes as she is in her quality of thinking and being in the world.

Skip your makeup and hair and just come over to hang out with him in sweats and a t-shirt. If you can’t be with him on that level, your long-term relationship won’t have a solid foundation.

What Men Want – Make Him Commit – #2: R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Look, you-know-who might have sung about this one – but she really didn’t understand how incredibly important this is to MEN.

We live in a world that pays very little respect to men. Shocking little. The modern media is in the middle of a feeding frenzy. Lots of men misbehave, yes.

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