Texting Tips For Men


http://www.davidwygant.com/mens-products/specialty-products/guys-guide-to-texting/ In this video we look at how to text women, and how to avoid some of the …

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41 thoughts on “Texting Tips For Men

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Hi David: I met this girl online and ever since we were texting. I might of sent a text a bit long and ever since she stopped responding. Do I just leave it? Or how long should I wait before trying again? – thanks.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    I completey agree with your video about texting. Otherwise we spend our time over analyzing why or why not she has not texted us back.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Texting is pretty much a thing for teenage girls.  In fact, I tell girls not to expect many texts from me because I have more important things to do than play guessing games over the phone.  You should pretty much use your phone to set up dates, and leave it at that.  Too much texting will just get you into trouble and cause unnecessary drama.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    They always misunderstand me i understand why when i read it one day later

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    It is so great to see this videos. I had big issues with text messages. I still have, but I am doing my best to get this out of my system. Eventually I will not care anymore, because if a person really is attracted to you will respond, if not than it is just how David said you move on. We can always find a person who we can connect in a right way. What we do need to care is to see where we are mistaking to perfect ourselves and we thank you David for your awesome advice.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    I think '50 shades of grey' is only enjoyed by women who never had a man tell her in literature's form of 'the love letter' all her best features of looks and social ambiance … and how he would integrate it into his own vices to have her in an orgasmic coma that only a freeze in time would be necessary to enjoy his passion for her fully without earthly cares … and thus the eroticism is included in my texts. But as you may figure from this, I have a history of unburnt letters and unerased texts that new-boyfriends/husbands are pissed about that I am first on the list NOT invited to any social gatherings any she(s) will be at. But I would for once like to convince a woman that a million dollars or a post apocalypse scavenger … I really would serve her breakfast and rub her body against the injuries our lovemaking would inflict upon her forever. And that I cower public kissing as it incites envy and I lose control (never public kissed) with a 'somewhat boastful' 100% statistic of the first lip french kiss to the panties in an hour, and 30 something exes that can balance a scale from those bad-girls to marriage worthy, but all are drop-dead gorgeous to make me stutter and say what is NOT on my mind … boring stuff, but I don't know how to convince her not to leave this boring spot.
     ……………………… other than a caveman with a big stick to her head … which I never tried!!!

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    oh shit i became so eroctic even afte 8texts cas she didnt reply

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    This guy was texting me every day (now, he texts me every couple of days- and that's ok… whatever) for weeks. He got used to the fact that during those moments, I had the opportunity to answer back almost right away. On the time when I didn't (let's say average 2 hours later), he got crazy and asked where was I. Another time, I was at a dance class and I might have missed his text once the class just began, so 3 hours later when the class was over, he thought I was mad at him ("Why are you mad at me?"… asked me twice) So I said to myself, "huhhhh? What is this guy talking about?" He doesn't call me, I got tired of calling him- so I texted him back right after and said we should talk. He had no interest of calling me to discuss, so I left it alone. Why even bother? It was in my mind for days, but it wasn't worth the thought because if it was not THAT important to him, then why should it be to me? I just moved on. I don't think I should be the one to make the move to give him a call for a discussion. Communication issues and assumption does not help anyone. We are all entitled to call several hours later! We are all busy doing something. Again… whatever! 

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    ive been texting a girl and its going well. wanted to ask her out but cant cuz her exams are on and dont want to bother her but then again her exams end after a whole month and im worried that she might find someone else or lose instrest. what do i do?

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Met this girl, we moved sorta fast for a few weeks. We both decided to slow it down for the good of our developing relationship. At the same time, she was having a bout of depression and canceled a meet-up to stay at home in bed. We used to text several times a day carrying on a conversation, but after the "slow down" conversation she has shorter responses, and only responds sometimes. 

    After I picked up on that I would send fewer messages so as not to crowd her. In my view she's either taking some space and breathing room, and seeing if I can do the same, or she's trying to let me off without having to do the the break-up-conversation. She got out of a long relationship earlier this year so I feel like she's scared about how close and open we got so quickly. What do you guys think?

    I last messaged her Monday, and I'm planning on asking her tomorrow if she wants to do anything on the weekend. Thoughts and opinions welcome.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    I think if she doesnt text back you wait a few days, then ask her out again.. If again she doesnt answer or gives some excuse, just forget about her. Delete the number and move on. Dont be the creepy insecure guy. 

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Hey David, I wrote you a mail a while ago, and you didn't get back to me.  Why didn't you reply to me?  Are we not friends anymore?  Why do you hate me?  OMFG mail me!

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Okay David, riddle me this: I was supposed to go on a date with this girl; she texted me she had a long lecture at the university and couldn't come at the appointed time. I texted I couldn't stretch my time and so I went alone. Later on I got another date with this girl. while chatting she told me she was Chatting with her BOYFRIEND or on Skype with her Mom during that time instead of being on the lecture. so she was lying on either of those cases. which? why's she going out with me if she has a boyfriend? these thoughts were passing my head as I still NAILED the DATE like a Freaking Pro despite this load of crock poured on me. I listened to her, we laughed, talked about our childhood etc. it was a 3 hour date.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    I just blew it with a girl that I really liked, I misunderstood her message and send a reply that she misunderstood. Personally I will not be messaging any more, it will either be face-to-face or phone call. I wish i didn't over-analyse her msg.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Wygant you are the man you give very good and realistic advice im learning loads from your vids thanks dude

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Here's one thing not to do guys. Don't send texts like "GM" every morning, but nothing with substance or no follow up with phone conversations. If you don't provide substance or pursuit, don't expect a girl to put any energy into you.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    The biggest Tip I seen on youtube is text her back right after you got her cell phone number.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    It started off with this girl being interested in me, always chilling and approaching me in college (I wasn't interested then). But when I got her number it changed after awhile. The first few convo's went well, she even asked me if I wanted to go chill with her but I was busy that day and had to say no. The next the (the day I was supposedly busy on) I ended up finishing my work early and texted her if she was still up for it, but she had already set up day out with her friends. Ever since that it felt like she had more dominance over me, I never knew how to change it again. In college she became blunt and changed. However, after awhile I wasn't bothered to "chase" her so I ignored her. Then one day she calls me and asks why I'm ignoring her, I was quite blunt over the phone. Also, her reason for being "blunt and off" was because apparently people thought that we were going out so she took her distance. But there are still signs that she is interested but I'm not so sure. Recently I asked if she wanted to go for a drink, she said that she is busy "next week" "maybe another time". What do you think of all of this? 

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Duh you don't keep texting just because she hasn't replied right away she has a life it's common sense. The more you keep texting and being pushy she won't ever get back to you again.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Hey it would realy be cool If you could make a video on how to get these girls on there socail media to come and. Hang out a and have fun.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    i've had awful luck with texting lately, if you want send me a message and i'll give you detailed exemples! i just dont want to spend 15 mins on a message that'll get lost in the comments

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    i have seen girls doing that , she was struggling with self esteem issues , or could be that she thot her ex was dating some one and she wasnt, to overcome that she might have ask u.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    text game is a huge world in its own. if i had to give a few tips to guys, to be more succesful texting women. it would be the 3 things that i myself stopped doing, and things really really started moving after that 🙂
    1: dont ever ever send 2 texts in a row…respond to her last text…and WAIT! like david says..shes busy doing her own stuff.
    2: cut down on the smileys, theyre creepy to women if there is to many.
    3: try to allways be the one who ends the conversation
    Huge impact guys..huge!

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    hi, i will admit i am guilty of neurosis when it comes to texting. ill be texting, things will be great and then bam! crickets… and i freak. out. i tell myself that shes probably busy but i also tell myself that shes losing interest… what do i do???? what do i say?? its so stressful.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    They say that texting is the way to actually GET the girl SEXUALLY intrested in you. If that is the case than I am atrocious! my downfall is the flirt game when texting. I am new to this still learning and practicing, however I don't really get the psychology behind why it seems texting a woman+flirting with her via text seems to turn her on even more.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Ran into a doll I met a year back. She was on a dbl date so her gf wrangled her back in. Later at the end of the night, she tracks me down as she's leaving (a bit passed tipsy) and asks for my # and why I didn't respond to her on FB. Again, her friend pulls her off so I tell her I'll get back to her on FB… I pass out, she calls asking what I'm doing and if she woke me up. Playfully i said 'yes ya jerk, I have work in three hrs". her reply, 'you suck, call me tommorow.' I did, nothing…

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Thank goodness I've never tripped when I've texted women and they didn't get back to me. I'm not looking to disturb anyone. They have lives just like I have a life. I'm just happy about them getting back to me when they can.

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Listen to what she's saying. What's the dialogue like? Are you just attracted to her looks, or does she actually interest you? If she does, suggest an activity you mutually enjoy. Use the words "give me your phone number we're gonna hang and ______ sometime soon". But if she blows you off anyway, be kind. Just because you get rejected a handful of times doesn't mean you should stop trying. Stay positive and one will give you her number. She'll be well worth the effort too you slick muthafucka

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    I'm sorry for ranting like that….I apologize. A texting question I have is if you text a girl and she doesn't text u back should u just keep it like that? And let days go by without hitting her back up? Because that's what I do. I never hit a girl up if she doesn't respond, even if days go by. Is that appropriate?

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    A girl invites me to a friends party, but later un-invites me because she finds out an ex-boyfriend will be there and her friends don't want to upset the ex because it's his birthday. She assures me there's not reason to worry and rain-checks to the next day. As I leave to meet her for the rain check, she cancels with no follow up. I tell her I'm disappointed then go silent. I see photos of her and her ex being "friendly" on Fb. Ball's in her court right?

  • August 23, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    She texted me again the next day and I'm upset because she didn't reply again. She asked "what you doing stranger"? And I answered her and I told her I was doing HW and she asked "what HW"? I told her but she never replied again. So the next day I texted her she replied but was weird with it and she texted back ASAP. but she stopped texting me, so I wanted to call her so we can talk. I called but her phone but she won't answer….I don't wanna text I wanna talk it out. So should I text her?

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