How To Avoid The Friend-Zone


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Jinger Jarrett is a full time freelance writer, author and internet marketer who teaches small businesses how to get started online and then market their businesses for free. She is also a US Army Veteran and seeks to connect with other veterans who are interested in starting a business or are currently business owners and want to connect.

42 thoughts on “How To Avoid The Friend-Zone

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    Subscribe to get your ass kicked every week lol Hahahaha

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    this guy is so funny giving the raw truth with an edge of humuor! bravo mate

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    I wish I could have him saying friend zone at :52 seconds as my ringtone!

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    I totally disagree… there is no such a thing as a dead end on any human relation. Brain is a very complicated tool but it can always be tricked and manipulated for the better or the worst reasons. Obviously anyone can get out of the friendzone you just need to observe and hit back and destroy the section on her brain that stored you as friend. Seeing someone as a friend is a collection of habits, for example words that you are using or situations that you created and they are stored on her brain as friend situations.

    So the real question is can we "delete" / "corrupt" / "manipulate" those stored information? There is always a way…. I am not the best person to tell you how to achieve that as I never spended enough time and effort on trying to master some techniques but I can share a technique that I invented out of desperation and luck and it worked couple of times.

    I believe that one way to "break" those stored information that want you as her friend is a good shock. Normally when a human being is experiencing something completelly different from the things that he/she is get use to, he/she start thinking more and more about things that are "standard" and stable on his/her head.

    In my case the technique that I used to create this "mini shock" was to create a habit for her, a habit that she is going to like and it will also be bounted to me. For example send her every morning a text with a goodmorning and some sweet harmless compliments or make a specific compliment with any possible chance during your interactions, or even something physical, for example if you are working togeather get her a coffee every morning. Keep this pattern for a period that will allow her to store it in her brain as habit but be ware inside this habit you dont have to miss the part that will boost her self estime and her ego.

    When this habit is stored in her brain for good, she is not only have a process that she thinks she will have for a loooong time but she also thinks that she has power over you just because with this habit you boost her ego unconditionally without asking something back.

    One day this habit will stop suddendly with no explananation and no sings of preperation for her. Trust me she will come and ask you the reason either directly or with an indirect aproach. Thats it…. you have a second chance to destroy everything that is stored in her brain about you being her friend.

    When she comes and asks the reason, you need to handle the situation with a way that will show her that you sudendly lost your interest in her but without really telling her that.
    For example if she asks you hey you didnt text me this morning your reply will be, "Aw I didnt? I must forgot I have a lot of things in my mind lately" or something like that. The pattern must be "suddendly I lost interest + things that you dont know about are happening in my life + I dont really care that much what you think about me any more" more or less that is the pattern.

    When you achieve that you keep up with a small period that she has to get use the fact that you stopped her habbit, no more coffee, sweet words and ego boost for her. You dont want to keep this period for long because if she got use to it you lost your chance.

    Just before she get use this situation you have a chance to make your move and change the game, ask her to do something with you that you would never ask before as her friend. Go to a movie, trip, for a walk anything.

    At this point she will be kinda disoriented and her opinion about you will be a bit unstable that is the opening that you need to selte the things again in your way. Be careful if you reach this final stage do not repeat by accident any phrase or action that will trigger her memories of you as a friend. You need to be a different person, or at least having a totally differend approach on her, its a new beggining after all, you rewriting hystory in her brain.

    I hope I explained my whole experience accuretly enough to makes sense.

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    I Seduced and Fucked this Girl once and afterwords she put me in the Friends zone lol But i had already hit it so i stopped talking to her and moved on.

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    Love it. You're such a dick, but it's perfect. Every once in a while I need a good ol kick in the ass from d wygant. 

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    I have asked this girl I like out several times but she always says no. interests don't match or she doesn't have time. she shies away from my touch too. I can't go further without permission.

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    This is the man who always inspires and gets me fired up every time I watch his videos. I know he would tell us to get ourselves off the computer and go apply the things we've learnt in real life. But I have a question: how do you know you're ready for dating? For one, I've never dated (out of choice) because I always feel that I'm not ready to take on the good and the bad of having someone new in my life. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! =)

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    So from all of these women you're around you don't see one of them that shows interest?? If not, then it sounds like you'll need to find women that aren't in your line of work. Women in your field won't find it attractive, they'll just see you as an equal and come to you when heavy lifting or protection from crazies is required.

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    Is there a way to challenge women without sounding like you're criticizing? Sometimes when I try to be challenging, I feel like I'm criticizing and it makes me feel like an asshole. 

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    I'm in college. I wish I could apply all of these concepts. I set the date, take charge and show interest but I guess dinner dates in college are just too formal and just intimidate people…

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    Well… it might say I'm as stupid as 90% of internet users, who knows? On the other hand tho it might say I didn't know what kind of video it was until I've watched it. 

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    Wouldn't grabbing be too aggressive ?. 

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    Why do you have a picture of a ghost as your profile pic? Is it the ghost from "Ghost" with Whoopi Goldberg? 

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    Be careful gents….there are times where the friend zone is a better place than in the relationship. If her relationships always end the same way as the movie The Poseidon Adventure, it at least pays to have her around to see the signs of things to stay as far from as possible. 

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    This guy knows what hes talking about

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    David RAGES!!! 😀 recieved alot of friendzone mails lately Dave? you seem sick of em haha

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    You are watching this. What does that say about you?

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    only when she's in a serious relationship and complaining about her man, so she screws you to feel better. But if she's "on the market" your shoulder to cry on will never become a dick to ride on.

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    Not wanting you romantically/sexually doesn't make her a bitch. Everyone has the right to choose who they want to be with. She might be a bitch for other reasons but not that.

  • September 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm
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    Preaching to the choir man, tell this to soo many mates :L

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